When people are facing trials in life, I’ve come to learn that statements such as, “I knew this would happen” “You should have done this” “Why didn’t you take that away” “This is what I would have done” “Try not to worry” etc… are NOT HELPFUL. BTW I’ve been guilty of these statements.
I have also learned that the fix is not as simple as it appears when looking from the outside in. Many times, there are dynamics internally that we are not aware of. Again, guilty.
Just some thoughts that have helped me grow and may help others along the way.

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